Sunday, December 20, 2015

Owed to KENO

Owed to KENO
Noel Laflin
12-19-15




KENO is a game of chance
Where numbers flash 
And red squares dance. 
Place 'em high, 
Hide 'em low,
Hold your breath, 
And start the show. 
But Lady Luck can be quite fickle,
As I've lost another nickel.

Monday, December 14, 2015

Christmas in August

Christmas in August
Noel Laflin
12-14-15

 An impromptu Christmas in August gathering at Green Valley Lake, 8-2-15

Sometime in the early 1970’s, the traditional end of the year staff party switched from being a date night with girlfriends, held in the cozy old Scoutmaster’s lounge, to a Christmas in August themed affair in the mess hall – just for staff.

The heretofore parties marking the end of camp, the buttoning down for the off-season, and the final farewells to old and new friends alike took on a distinctively differ feeling with the change in venue – a change that I was grateful for as I never had a girlfriend to invite to camp anyway.

In the old days, the lounge was hastily cleaned and a stack of firewood was laid within the ancient stone fireplace.  The soda machine was moved from the trading post and placed beneath the covered patio; the drinks were free.

Girlfriends or wives would begin to show up about the time guys were still fighting over the single sink and mirror in the old head on staff hill - trying to get in a last minute shave or tame a troublesome cowlick.

Meanwhile, Fred La Velle wondered if his invited date, Trisha Nixon, would show for the party in 1969.

She did not unfortunately.  Just as well, as all of those Secret Service fellows would have put a damper on couples attempting to take a stroll in the woods no doubt.

Tommy James and the Shondells, The Animals, Herman’s Hermits, and The Beach Boys could be heard coming from someone’s reel-to-reel, now moved into the old lounge – the beat-up furniture having been pushed up against the pale white walls so a small dance floor could be had in front of an inviting fire.

And those of us without girlfriends would shyly make our way to the soda machine, maybe take a peek inside where couples danced, and eventually slink away to the pool steps and hold council amongst ourselves – retelling favorite anecdotes from the summer, sneaking in a smoke or two, and being content with a cool summer night, bright stars above, and thoughts of the long drive home in the morning.

All of this changed, however, when someone had the idea of making the year-end gathering a Christmas party; the rationale being that we were a family bereft of actually gathering together in December, so why not do it early – Christmas in August, as it became known.  I am pretty certain that it was Gene Bergner’s idea.

And so the mess hall was decked out with fresh cut boughs of evergreens, and a perfect young white fir selected and then sacrificed to be our fully decorated Christmas tree. A fire was laid in the fireplace and Christmas tunes emanated from someone's borrowed stereo or eight track.

The cooks and kitchen staff labored all day with the food preparations.  Turkeys were roasted, drippings saved and thickened into gravy, potatoes peeled then mashed, day old bread turned into stuffing, cranberries cooked, pumpkin pies baked.

There was a feast, followed by awards for some, presents for all, and testimonials from many.

By the end of the night we said our last goodbyes and headed out into the cool mountain air, thinking about the long drive home in the morning.


The party theme may have morphed over the decades, but the final thoughts of camp rarely did. 

The Christmas Call

The Christmas Call
Noel Laflin
12-14-15



Each year our elderly neighbors from two doors down the street would join us on Christmas Day - but not until they had first spoken, or attempted to speak, to their nieces and nephews in East Germany. It was a hit or miss scenario every year as the few lines into communist-held land were jam packed with folks from across the globe, as well as Germans living but a kilometer away in the West, desperately trying to get through to family trapped in Eastern provinces - especially on Christmas Day.

Whether the Christmas call was successful or not, there were always tears afterwards; tears of joy or sadness, tears of loneliness or guilt, tears of missing family so very far away.


And although I was just a kid, I understood those tears streaming across the cheeks of these two beloved neighbors when they did eventually shuffle down the street and join us for festivities in our home.  If they arrived early in the day, we knew the call had been successful.  If they put in a later appearance - well, it was best not to ask, but to merely make sure that there was plenty of wine and schnapps on hand - and see to it that their glasses were never empty. 

Thursday, December 3, 2015

Not Forgotten

Not Forgotten
Noel Laflin
December 1, 2015

On this, the 28th anniversary of the World AIDS Day Observance:
Why I lived, while so many others did not –
I will never know for certain.
Is there survivor's guilt, you ask.
Yes. 
But I have tried to replace it - over time - with fond remembrance,
As I am here to still bear witness, a quarter of a century later,
That they indeed did live and breathe,
Love, contribute, care and create -
If only, for a limited life engagement.
So here’s to the memory of Tom, Jeremy, Rick, David, John, 
Lane, Doug, Jerry, Jim ...
And oh, so many more to recall.
But you all live in memory lads - you are not forgotten.


"What lips my lips have kissed, and where, and why, 
I have forgotten, and what arms have lain 
Under my head till morning; but the rain 
Is full of ghosts tonight, that tap and sigh 
Upon the glass and listen for reply, 
And in my heart there stirs a quiet pain 
For unremembered lads that not again 
Will turn to me at midnight with a cry. 
Thus in winter stands the lonely tree, 
Nor knows what birds have vanished one by one, 
Yet knows its boughs more silent than before: 
I cannot say what loves have come and gone, 
I only know that summer sang in me 
A little while, that in me sings no more."

Edna St. Vincent Millay